Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Thoughts on Unrequested Critiques

This is judgment. This kind of judgment is born of insecurity and comparison. This means that when they are telling you about you, they are really thinking about themselves.

The sadness about this is that the individual judging is most likely never going to be privy to the fact that they are pointing in the mirror.

This is because what they are really saying is that they think that they can relate to what they see. When words come off like that, generally speaking (meaning the rule of thumb for this situation) is that they are indirectly co-signing.

Thus, it is with a heavy heart that you realize it isn't a persons place to tell you about yourself because of them self-snitching. What can they do to get their point across? Grow up. Yep, that is it.

-Ross

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